The problems you face are rarely the problem. The greater problem, if you are not careful, is not the problem itself, but your approach to dealing with the problem. If you approach the problem correctly, that is, in the right spirit, with the right perspective and using the correct tools, more often than not the problem resolves quickly and with an optimal expenditure of effort.
Any fool can bemoan his circumstances. More noble is the man who, in every conceivable situation, makes the best of the occasion.— Gregg Hake